Desires..!!
When we hear this magical word, some images comes up in our mind, images of all the things which we want in our life, images of all the experiences which we always wanted to live.
How these things come to our mind ? Are they with us from our time of birth ? We can find out the answers.
As we grow in life our desires change. At the age of 5 a child wouldn't desire for a Good Career or a Beautiful, supporting wife on the other hand at 25 you would not need a toy car.
We become very happy when we accomplish something and again we start desiring something else and that process keeps on repeating. But have we ever think about this happiness? Is this happiness everlasting ? The answer is NO. Because our desires are endless, desires can never be everlasting because we never thought of any other aspect rather than blindly desiring. Sometimes we do not even know why we needed those things. And you know what with every accomplishment the importance of those things tends to reduce.
How desires develop in us what could be there consequences ?
When we see something and if admire it we start liking it. And we try to get it, its a natural process. when we fail to get that thing our desperation to get that thing increases.That is the time when our downfall starts. Anger and selfishness increases. It impacts other aspects of life as well like our relations. I am not pessimist to say all these things but it actually happens when your desire is not good.
Lets take an example of a man who desires for a girl who is already married and happy with her husband. In this case that person can ruin his as well as the women's life. Or a person having bad eye on other's property.
Today human being is so much materialistic. He does not even know how real is the happiness which he would get after he own's that thing.
The things which can give us happiness are true relations and for them it can surely be said that this happiness remains lasts forever. You can feel the true joy of having that kind of relationship with someone.This relation can also be with your pet.
I am not saying that you should not have desires in your life. Dream and make them come true. But it should also impact society in a positive manner in which you are living. Here society would be your family friends loved ones or they all together. Achieve great heights and share your joy with everyone.
Because by wanting you will surely achieve a little but would lose everything,desires never ends but relation will.